How To Deal With Negative People? When we do something good, people are going to criticize us but when we do something better, people are going to definitely criticize us.
1. Are They Right?: Before we deal with negative people, the first question that we need to ask ourselves is: are they right? if yes then we should ask another question: are they providing constructive feedback? if yes then we should take their advice. But if they are advising us out of jealousy; then the best thing to do is, stay away from them.
2. Are They Worth Our Time: The second way to deal with negative people is to ask another question to ourselves i.e are they worth our time? Don't we have other people in our life to spend time on? Don't we have a wonderful family, good friends and fantastic neighbors? If yes, then spend time on them. It's all about prioritizing . If you don't avoid thinking about negative people you have in your life, then you are never going to get rid of them.
3. Criticism Never Ends: The third way to deal with negative people is to know that criticism is a never ending process. No matter, how good you are, no matter how better you are going to be, there will be people who are waiting to criticize you. Either you are helping your own family or taking a stand for others, you should always expect criticism.
It's sad but unfortunately this is the reality. If you want to live a carefree life then you must learn how to face and live with criticism.